Single guys dating women with kids
PLEASE NOTE: If you want to comment, do so here because this entry already had hundreds of comments.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.Marrying a woman with minor children gives you about a 70% chance of getting divorced. Some people stay legally married, but miserable.8) You don’t want to deal with the child’s father.Even if you’re just dating her and don’t want to get married, if the father(s) of the child(ren) is/are in the picture, that is likely going to be even more of a hassle for you.Finally, if you marry her, you will DEFINITELY be paying more.5) A woman who has given birth can’t ever have a body close to what she had before carrying a child.This is not saying that having a child isn’t worth it, but this is not about YOU having a child. Her body was changed by something that is of no benefit to you.6) You don’t want to be a father.
Second marriages have a higher failure rate than first marriage.
Conversely, here are the downsides of dating a single mother, in no particular order:1) The kid(s) will always come first for her, and that’s the way it should be.
A woman without a child has much more freedom to be available for you.
She may WANT her child(ren) to have a sibling, and you don’t want to end up being Daddy.
It doesn’t matter what she says as far as “I don’t want another child” or “I can’t get pregnant” or “I’m using contraception” or “I wouldn’t ask anything of you.” Women lie or change their minds about this sort of thing all of time**, and even if she doesn’t, a court can make you be Daddy, financially anyway.7) You don’t want to be divorced.
So not only will you not be getting sex, but you’re going to have to hang out at Chuck E.