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Unless it's just a fun, sexy, baggage-free throw-you-over-your-desk situation where nobody gets hurt at the end. There's probably a reason no woman his age wants to date him. You'll end up alienating the friends who are dropping truth-bombs such as the one above. Sleeping with him might be a bigger emotional deal for you than you think. It's great how you guys are on the same emotional level, right! Next thing you know, he's your closest friend as well as your boyfriend — which creates a co-dependent dynamic that's bad for any relationship. Whether or not you tell your parents about him or not, it's a lose-lose. I know hearing that is like sticking a fork in your chest and ripping your heart out. Maybe you're sure that you won't be dramatic about it, like "other girls." But that shit tends to sneak up on you. If he's married, he's not going to leave his wife for you. He might be running from a bad relationship with a woman his age. (Wrong.) He's in a different generation than you; he shouldn't be a decade behind emotionally.
That said, if you’re recently single for the first time in a long time, you may not know where to begin.
There’s very little competition for these bachelors—and you can have your pick, if you are willing to make the first move.” “Many women are looking for a ‘good’ partner but have not defined what good looks like,” Drenner explains.
“The more clearly ‘good’ is defined, the sooner your will be able to eliminate those that don’t fit the criteria.” , author and relationship expert.
" Puke.) But mostly, it's the fact that he's your first. But the only way for that to happen is to let it end when it's supposed to.
Not necessarily just sexually, but myriad other ways, too: The first guy you watch with, the guy who buys you a copy of Pink Floyd's "Dark Side of The Moon," the first one in the passenger's seat as soon as you get your learner's permit... Let me rephrase that: It probably last, because as you get older, you'll change (which is normal and great so don't fight it!
If not, the sneaking around, lies and secrets will strain your relationship. No matter how special he insists you are, the chances are that he's been dating younger girls for years. And it doesn't mean you're weak or naïve— it just means that you value yourself. Which is one of those things where, yeah, it happened, but asteroids also hit the Earth occasionally and we all still leave our houses without wearing full-body protective Plexiglass domes. If he had a nasty breakup with (or for older men, a nasty divorce from) someone in his demographic, there's a good shot that's why he's with you — someone who, ostensibly, can't hurt him. That's like valuing a 30-year-old because he has the math aptitude of a middle schooler.